As an attorney in legal services, I represented many victims of domestic violence. My representation of battered women was specifically funded by VAWA, the Violence Against Women Act, passed in 1994. These clients inspired me every day. I watched them blossom, with the seeds of courage planted deep within, nurtured by family and friends, who did everything they could to encourage my clients to leave abusive relationships.
Anyone who has assisted fellow travelers struggling with physical abuse, addiction, illness, financial instability and other heart-wrenching problems, knows that from such powerlessness can arise the inner fortitude that is necessary to overcome these bleak circumstances.
It takes strength to face the blunt reality of one’s smallness and neediness, which is only too human and known to us all. This strength is encouraged to grow by the support of not only loved ones, but also of the community at large, assisting with vital tools, such as legal representation for domestic violence victims. That is why VAWA has been such a life-saving effort, funded by us, as citizens, to usher women on the path from victims to choicemakers, moving past violence to determine their own futures.
If you want to learn more about empowering women against violence read about the creation of VAWA and why we as a nation chose to protect women through this Act by establishing the Office on Violence Against Women in the United States Department of Justice: https://www.justice.gov/ovw/about-office
“In 1994 Congress passed the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in recognition of the severity of crimes associated with domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. This Act emerged from the efforts of a broad, grassroots coalition of advocates and survivors who informed the work of Congress. In the two decades prior to VAWA, a movement had grown within the United States to respond appropriately to violent crimes against women. Rape crisis centers and women’s shelters were established in localities, and state and local laws had changed. However, the progress had been uneven around the country. VAWA was borne out of the need for a national solution. This Act enhances the investigation and prosecution of violent crimes against women.
Created in 1995, OVW administers financial and technical assistance to communities across the country that are developing programs, policies, and practices aimed at ending domestic violence, dating violence, sexual assault, and stalking.”
Anyone who has lived through sexual harassment, sexual abuse or domestic violence knows that recovery from these wounds exacts a profound process of healing, taking the time to become whole again after such violence. It is a searing inner journey that allows the soul, not only to repair the damage done and the pain resultant, but also to heal from such pain, leading the soul to wisdom, compassion and understanding.
I salute Colbie Holderness for her strength and courage to choose the path to healing:
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